Female and fearless. A little girl at the church where I work has, in her mother’s words, no fear. She runs, she climbs, she falls out of windows. If there’s a door, she will open it. She will get into anything and everything, especially when she has been told it’s off-limits. Yet she is all girl–pinks, ponies, and fairy tales. I coined the term “lipstick commando” to describe her, and I mean it as the highest compliment possible.